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Loving the French....

When that whole "Freedom Fries" thing came up...I was cringing.  As if our french fries could even hold a bic lighter to pommes frites.  There is absolutely no comparison and we should feel lucky that the French even allow us to call our pale, greasy imitation a "french" fry.

It's true...I drew a "moue" or seven while I was there.  Particularly in Paris, where the tone is a bit higher.  The coat check ladies at the Louvre were particularly offended by my smelly Barbour jacket that I wore everywhere.  They thought I was a Brit.  And everyone pleaded with me to please not speak French.  That's how amazingly bad my French is....plus it is spoken very slowly with a thick South Carolina Lowcountry accent. 

"ou est la toilette, y'all". 

But I think I got points for at least trying to speak the language.  I always loved David Sedaris' "Me Talk Pretty One Day"....because that was so me as well.

It is one thing to love France.  Many people love France.  But it is another thing entirely to love the French.  I know my sister loves France...and she goes there quite often.  I wish I could travel there as often.  But I'm not sure she loves the French as I do. 

Loving the French means submersing yourself in a set of priorities that are quite foreign to Anglo sensibilities.  It means being violently passionate about certain things....and suffering from a dreadful ennui about others.  It means caring deeply about human rights, tradition, food, wine, leisure time and sex, while at the same time having an abiding concern and devotion to Catholicism, family and privacy.  As I do with any culture, I identified more with the country folk than with the Parisians.  I just don't enjoy "putting on the dog" as we say, as much as other people.  Paris is all about "putting on the dog".

I'm probably putting it poorly.  I'm fairly certain that I don't actually "get it".  But I've tried awfully hard to do so.  I was probably as much of an ugly American as the next guy. 

But I think I got points for not asking directions to the Bastille.



Posted on 07/14/2005 9:11 AM Visits: 23
thequixotic1: 07/14/2005 9:51 AM
I love "It means being violently passionate about certain things....and suffering from a dreadful ennui about others." :)

I expected hardcore rudeness in Paris, I must confess. As it turned out, the only person in all of Paris who was rude to me was from Venice.

The traffic was some scariness, though. ;)
rosiewolf: 07/14/2005 10:09 AM
I think the perceived rudeness of Parisians by Americans has more to do with Americans expecting everyone to behave as Americans. If you go there without that preconception, you don't have that experience.

I was so frightened of the traffic that I stayed in Versaille and took the train in. I'm pretty sure my Morris Minor would have been trashed there. I remember standing at the round-about at the Arc de Triomphe just gawking like a hayseed hick at the traffic. I may have uttered a Gomer Pyle, "Well, Gollleee!"
annier: 07/14/2005 10:12 AM
I love France - and the French are ok too - you're right about getting points for trying to speak the langauge - so many people especially Brits expect everyone to speak english even in the depths of the French countryside.
I've driven all over Europe - France was fine except for Paris - scary!! Almost as bad as Naples where I got lost and nearly abandoned the car!
ooo: 07/14/2005 10:15 AM
You SO rock!!!! :D Thank you!
oldjack: 07/14/2005 10:41 AM
The only thing that bothered me in France was the Metro! 7am on a nice Sunday you walk down to the platform and the overwhealming smell of garlic!
asreen: 07/14/2005 10:50 AM
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mahayani: 07/20/2005 10:07 PM
I'm not American, never been to France, so I have no particular comment on this.
But I would like to ask? What is so special about French Movies?
They become quite "loved" in many parts of this world
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